Five Things to Avoid While Going Steady with a Former Soviet Union Woman
This issue will be interesting for every man who is going to find a former Soviet Union bride. Learn 5 most popular errors men make with Russian Dating. The first one is the most significant; others are also very important.
1. Sending her money. Do not send money to a girl who you met via dating agency. You should know that a sincere girl would not ask; she has too much self-respect. Again, she has managed to live for more than twenty years without you. Why would she ask for your help now? Any former Soviet Union girl who asks you for cash is just trying to scam you. A former Soviet Union lady does not believe you two to be in a “real” relationship until you have seen each other in real life! Would you give your cash to an American woman that you had just met? Remember about it. It is just not clever and sets you up for trouble (and makes the women believe it is easy and gives them reasons for the same behavior).
2. Not questioning. You are looking for a help mate, not a girl to just pass the time. Russian girls are honest (at least most of them) and they deserve the same respect. Besides, if you do not question to learn more about her, her dreams etc… she will sooner or later decide that you are playing games. Then she will dump you, or just will try to get the most out of you! If you are really willing to make a family, you should be asking her a lot of different questions! Not only put all kinds of different questions, but ask them several times in different ways, just to make sure if you get consistent answers (a good way to protect yourself from a scam).
3. Giving her the photos she doesn't need. Don't give her photos of your house or other prized possession. If you do, you will attract the wrong type of lady. An honest Russian lady is more concerned about your soul than she is about your money. If you focus on your money, she will possibly decide you are a shallow and insecure person. Focusing on your possessions only seems to work on women from the US, the most superficial and windy women in the world! The former Soviet Union is not the US, you do not need to impress these girls with attainments! Show them your sensitive side, what you like to do, what you think and feel and you'll get a appreciative wife.
4. Not preparing properly for a trip. Do you know that in order to bring her to the US as your bride, you must go to her country first? Yes, it is the only way she will be able to get a visa to the USA. A Russian girl, if she is serious, will talk about meeting in person. You must be prepared to travel to her country some day. A girl will generally give you about half a year to decide you will visit. Then a few more months to prepare. Make her wait longer period she will decide you are a shallow and write to a man she would consider is more serious! So be ready to go abroad and spend money.
5. Not having a backup plan. This is a huge error! If you do for all that go to Russia, you never know what will happen. You sure will get some unexpected results! No matter how many letters you have written to your bride or how many phone calls you have made, once you see her in real life, things will become different. Maybe you both look at each other and decide it is not going to happen. Your emergency plan will help you if it happens. And don't make a journey only for one woman (unless you have already met). Meet two or three. Also try to have good relations with at least one of the local agencies in the city you are going to. Know their contact information. Then, if things don't work out, you will be able to contact another agency and meet other girls.
Well, try to follow these rules and you will surely have luck with russian girl
January 29 2010 09:57 am | Dating